Too Many Women Are Sacrificing Their Minds, Bodies and Spirits ~ by Dr. Joyce Morley-Ball [Event Post]

Too Many Women Are Sacrificing Their Minds, Bodies and Spirits ~ by Dr. Joyce Morley-Ball [Event Post]

It is imperative that our women, especially black women, begin to take their own pulses to see if they are breathing or not! Too many women are spiritually dead and some act as if they are mentally dead, because they are constantly allowing men to not acknowledge their humanness or their womanhood.

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No Wedding; No Womb

Dr. Joyce Morley-Ball

www.doctorjoyce.com

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Author, Radio/TV Show Host; Motivational/Keynote Speaker; Psychotherapist; Relationship Expert; Executive/Relationship/Life Coach

At some point, it is hoped that women will recognize that most men go to bed with them for the night, while they are going to bed with men for what they would like to believe is a lifetime!  Wakeup women!  If he already has two or three baby mamas, what makes what you are offering him sexually, better than what he has gotten or is getting from other women?

It is imperative that our women, especially black women, begin to take their own pulses to see if they are breathing or not! Too many women are spiritually dead and some act as if they are mentally dead, because they are constantly allowing men to not acknowledge their humanness or their womanhood.  These women are also allowing men to exhibit their selfishness without looking at the consequences of their behaviors. And too many more of our women are sacrificing their minds, bodies, and spirits to sleep with men who have no intention of committing to these women, let alone committing to the children that might occur as a result of hooking up and sleeping with these women.  And then it is not fair for these women to keep compromising their very existence for a moment or night of pleasure that often results in pregnancy—a pregnancy and a child that has a present, but might not have a future with a father.

To put it bluntly, women must stop sleeping with men without commitment, and they must stop creating children that men might ask for (because they know this will get them what they want for the night), children they don’t necessarily want, and children that they rarely take care of, financially, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. The cycle of fatherlessness must stop. And women must cease their acts of desperation and stop trying to satisfy their longing for a man and sometimes for a father, by sleeping with and getting pregnant by men who are not prepared to be fathers.  They must recognize that anybody can be a sperm donor and anybody can be a daddy.  However, it takes a real special man to be a father.

Although a wedding and a wedding band won’t necessarily guarantee fatherhood, these rituals at least call for commitment and compromise.  They also force men to take an extra step in committing to and with women, before having children.  It also makes these men responsible for the financial care of their children, many times relieving taxpayers of having to care for children who resulted from women desperate to belong and men determined to just move on.

Women need to wake up and begin to see through the feel-good syndrome, as well as the excuses of unnatural feelings that men use to trick women into acts of unprotected sexual intercourse.  And if women are so desperate that they cannot wait to have sex with a man or they believe a man will not want them until they have sex, they must take the lead to ensure that preventive measures are taken to ensure that pregnancy does not occur, especially without commitment.

Wake up women!  You are worth more than a feeling for one night and the possibility of single parenthood.  We have too many fatherless children, too many single mothers, and too many men not taking responsibility for the children they have fathered.

When you expect less of your relationships as a woman, you will receive less!  It is imperative that you not only expect more from your relationships with the men you are involved with, but that you also learn to respect yourself, so that you will be able to receive respect from the men that you become involved with.  If as a woman, you are not in love with yourself, men most certainly cannot and will not be in love with you and men will have no reason for commitment.

Woman you deserve more!  If you don’t have commitment, there will be no wedding. And if there is no wedding, you have a choice in the matter; decide that there will be no babies!

Joyce Morley, Ed.D.

P.O. Box 1745

Decatur, GA 30031

(770) 808-6570

www.doctorjoyce.com

joyce@doctorjoyce.com

Author, Radio/TV Show Host; Motivational/Keynote Speaker; Psychotherapist; Relationship Expert; Executive/Relationship/Life Coach

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  1. INNW
    October 1, 2010

    Well put! Thank you!

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