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This Week: Baby Mama Drama
“There is something very wrong when a man is good enough to father your children but not good enough to marry and build a life together.” -Christelyn Karazin, founder of No Wedding, No Womb
“If you can’t get a husband, who am I to tell you no, you can’t be a mom?” -Demetria Lucas, relationship editor for Essence magazine, Blogger, A Belle in Brooklyn
In 1991, Tupac told the story of a fictional woman named Brenda, and how her unwed pregnancy “affects the whole community.” By the time Fantasia Barrino’s ‘Baby Mama’ hit the airwaves in 2005, many women rid themselves of shame or guilt, and instead sported single motherhood as “a badge of honor.”
According to an article in yesterday’s Washington Post, 72% of black babies are born to unwed mothers. Per usual, the rate of this health outcome is higher in the black community than it is in either the white or any minority population. And what’s the root of the problem? WaPo offers that it could be because black men constitute the majority of the incarcerated population in the States.* Furthermore, even if a young man doesn’t have a record, if he’s brought up in a low socioeconomic environment, his education likely won’t be enough to get him any occupation paying above the poverty line. So, essentially, we end up with a lot of men who are capable of making kids, but incapable of supporting them.
But we can’t just blame the men, can we? Of course not. Not when black women are increasingly adamant on proving themselves as independent women- what do they look like waiting around for a man to start a family? This is a common mentality shared by those who are financially stable enough to support an infant-sized addition to their lives. However, U.S. Census Bureau Statistics show that more often than not, single mother households are not run by mothers with a corner office. Most single black moms have no more than a high school education, and are working class women to whom another mouth to feed is simply an added stress. What other alternative is there but to raise the child as best they can, abortion or adoption?
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